A tribute to the Road

I remember having a conversation with a friend many years ago, who reminded me how blessed we are for winning the birth-lottery in Southeast Asia. On the world map, if we were born inches away from Singapore in a country like Laos or Cambodia, our lives would have been completely different. I have been tremendously blessed.

As I turn 30 this year, it is timely to look back at the past decade of traveling the world, and the freemasonry of the road.

It all started in 2006. The males lucked out that year when it was announced that National Service was to be cut down to a 22-month stint. Between the end of our obligation and the start of college, what started out as a plan to do the Angkor Wat marathon turned out to be a two month sojourn around our backyard in beautiful Southeast Asia. My first backpacking experience, the travel bug bit, and I never looked back since.

[Sending well wishes to Andy and Joses!]

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River at Kampot, Cambodia

In the winter of 2007, I had one of the richest study-abroad educational experiences in Salvador de Bahia under the guidance of Professor Luciano. This was also my first encounter with Capoeira, which is now a big part of my life.

[Sending well wishes to Prof Luciano, Michelle and all!]

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My host family in Salvador de Bahia

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NYE – Wear white if you’re spending New Years in Brazil

Travels changed course in 2008 after I picked up Spanish during the summer in Middlebury – one of the best summers of my life in beautiful Vermont! This guy probably sums up the 7 semanas de locura, period.

[Sending well wishes to Harley, Katherine, Andres, Andres and all!]

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#mostepic character Harley

During thanksgiving break of 2008 I took the chance to visit the crazy Masters-program students in Madrid/Barcelona, and finally got to put my Spanish to real use in Spain. I also got to see Gaudi and Calatrava’s work which I studied in Archi-101. It was breathtaking.

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La Sagrada Familia, Barcelona

Winter of 2008 took me on a journey to learn about microfinance in Peru. We visited a rural village called Casa Blanca near Ica and finally understood the gaps and opportunities of microfinance in the field. I spent some time after that backpacking around inner Peru from Cusco to Lago Titikaka (where I also experienced the worst case of altitude sickness at Puno – 4000m. It is the feeling of having your head in your stomach, absolutely horrible).

[Sending well wishes to Allyson and Rhiannon!]

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Uros people of Lago Titikaka

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Indescribable. It still feels like I was just there.

Winter of 2009 was a big window of opportunity to head down south again. We embarked on a month-long trip down to the end of the world – Ushuaia in Tierria del Fuego (trips to the Antarctica begin from here!). From there we worked out way northwards through Patagonia and western Argentina, witnessing some of the most amazing piece of nature’s artwork.

[Sending well wishes to Joyce and Jonathan who survived the longest of bus rides ever with me]

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Torres Del Paine, Pantagonia Chile

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36 hour bus rides across Mountain Passes like these

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Rio de Janeiro – She is as crazy as it sounds

2010 was senior year, and that also meant the real world was calling. Before the final exam period, we took a week off to spend spring break in Puerto Rico, and it sure was rico! (too much rum)

[Sending well wishes to the Illini crew!]

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the Caribbean sea!

After graduation, Dan and I stuffed all my belongings into my humble Eclipse, drove halfway across the country to Palo Alto. We survived 40-degree camping (we gave up after one night), tornado-warnings out in the Dakotas, Badlands National Park and 2 nights in Vegas.  Stanford plans changed course eventually, but the 2500-mile road trip itself was worth everything!

[Sending well wishes to Dan, and Vegas]

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There is no other reason to drive to South Dakota

The transition back to Singapore was rough, and I had the travel bug to thank for tiding me through the bulk of those years.

In March of 2011 I found the most ridiculous flight tickets on Air Asia X – SGD$500RT from KL to Paris. Jumped on that flight, and spent two weeks from Paris to Granada and managed to visit Liz in Morocco for a few days. First time setting foot on the African continent!

[Sending well wishes to Hee Jeong, Liz!]

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Don’t go to Paris alone.

That same year, Andy and I had the idea of during a re-trip together, and we spent some bromance time out in beautiful Yogyakarta.

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2012 was a pretty ridiculous year – almost like travel on crack. It was a combination of needing to escape the corporate life and plenty of cheap budget air tickets coupled with multiple long weekends. There was also the big trip to Mongolia which I took in-between jobs. It remains one of my top travel experiences till date, with the best story of a motorbike break-down and being helped out by the nomads in the middle of nowhere.

[Sending well wishes to David, Angeli, Sebastian and our Motorbike story, Johanna, Kim, Kyla, Cori, Kelly, Isabelle, Melanie, Leandre and how we survived the Russian Mafia, Steffen and Hannah, and the British couple I met in Sirigiya and later ran into 8 months later in Lago Atitlan, Guatemala… ]

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Go to Mongolia if you have the chance

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A beautiful country with beautiful souls – Sri Lanka

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Dan’s first time in Asia

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On this particular trip to Krabi we almost got murdered by Russian Mafia

2013 was an interesting change! I met Lysia, and found a life partner to share my travels with. I dragged her along to see Mount Bromo in Surabaya, kite-surf in Phuket and explore one of my favourite travel destinations till date – Guatemala, also where we met a god-send, Shelby 🙂

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Antigua, Guatemala

Prior to our relocation to America, I also got to spend a week out in Myanmar with Ivan, again, one of the most authentic travel experiences I have had. First hitch-hiking experience!

[Sending well wishes to Ivan!]

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Bagan, Myanmar

2014 was a lot of America. We love Austin, TX!!! Of course we filled it with more roadtrips that we could ever imagine, including a 20-hour roundtrip from Texas to Alberquerque and back, just to catch the hot-air balloon festival. We wrapped up the year in Mexico – beyond the drugs and border violence, Mexico is truly one of the most beautiful countries in the world.

[Sending well wishes to Shelby, Nick, Ben, Tristan and the Capoeira Luanda Austin Crew!]

In 2015 I got admitted into the Kiva Fellows program and relocated to Tajikistan! Central Asia is mountains-on-crack, and I loved every single bit of it. I also managed to visit Kyrgyzstan (visa free!) during my time out there, and captured two of my favorite photos, ever.

[Sending well wishes to KF26, the best housemates ever Anna and Emily, Joe who survived the longest hitch-hike ever across Kyrgyzstan with me, Bren, Luna/Lea/Floria and the house cat, Sonya/Ciaran and the longest snow trek to Altyn-Arashan]

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The beauty of the most remote of bus-stops, Kyrgyzstan

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Road to Murghab, middle of nowhere

En-route back to the US from Tajikistan, we had a little tete-a-tete in Turkey – a country which I didn’t think much of to start with but then just blew my mind as I started to find out more about its long history…

[Sending well wishes to Josh and Myri!]

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Sufi mystics – humankind is fascinating

Prior to our relocation back to Singapore, our final sojourn was to the enigmatic Cuba. We have always heard a lot about this little island, frozen in time mainly due to political backlash; but we got to experience a very special piece of history – travelling to Cuba was like visiting living museum.

[Sending well wishes to Jayce and Kawa!]

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Vinales, Cuba

We started off 2016 with a trip back to a country where Lysia spent a significant of time at during her college days – Japan! Overall a very unique society with loads of strange peeves, including the concept of capsule hotels, which was very, very strange.

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Our recent trip to The Philippines this past week marks the conclusion of my last decade of seeing the world since the first backpacking trip through Southeast Asia back in 2006. We were rewarded with the most beautiful of waters, and wonderful Filipino hospitality.

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Coron, Palawan Islands

This year also marks my 30th year alive! What a blessing to be able to breathe and walk and BE ALIVE!

What have I learnt over this past decade?

  1. Hitchhiking is one of the best adventures in life, and a stranger is a friend you just haven’t met
  2. The more you travel, the more you will appreciate of the little things in life
  3. The more you explore, the richer you become

God knows where the next decade will take us all in life?  Whatever the route, thank you everyone for being part of my journey!